Bob Paris

Early life

Paris was born and grew up in Brown County and Columbus, Indiana. From a very early age, he was both artistic and athletic. He won National Scholastic awards for his drawings and paintings and wrote short stories in his spare time. Paris was also an avid outdoors man who dedicated a large portion of his time to hiking and backpacking through the wooded hills of southern Indiana; Paris as well would ride his bike through the back roads and canoe the rivers. In high school Paris's interest in acting and theater started early, Paris was in several musicals throughout high school. Moreover, Paris was also involved in his school's debate team and a member of the International Thespian Society. Paris was involved in many sports in high school, he did track and field, golf, and was a talented football player for his school. By the time Paris was a Sophomore, he discovered an old, dusty weight-machine in a back room of his school's basketball gym. After experimenting with weight training, Paris started to gain size and strength. Paris had eventually started to lose interest in team sports due to his progress with weight-lifting. From that discovery Paris knew he wanted to be a bodybuilder.

After high school, Paris spent a summer in U.S Marine Corps boot camp at Parris Island, South Carolina. From there Paris started attending college at Indiana State University and later transferred to Indiana University in Bloomington. Paris really wanted to see more of the world so he moved to southern California to pursue his life and dreams of becoming a well-renowned bodybuilder and actor. Paris also had plans to begin writing. When Paris first moved to California, he had no contacts or friends, and often had to live out of his car. But after two years of living in Los Angeles, he had won two competitions, Mr. Los Angeles and Mr. Southern California. Paris's career had finally started.

Career

In 2006, Flex Magazine ranked Bob Paris the most aesthetic athlete in the history of bodybuilding. Renowned for both his aesthetics and artistic approach toward the sport, he was also a dedicated advocate for the rights of athletes and an outspoken voice in the push for drug testing at the professional level. He retired from bodybuilding in 1991.

In addition to his writing career, Bob Paris remains a civil rights advocate and public speaker. He is also a model and a classically trained theater actor. Since rising to fame in the early 1980s, Bob Paris has appeared on the covers of scores of magazines worldwide.

On October 10, 1998, he made his New York stage debut, starring at Carnegie Hall opposite Bea Arthur, Sandy Duncan, Michael Jeter, Philip Bosco, Alice Ripley and Tyne Daly in the Broadway musical, Jubilee as the character Mowgli.

In 2009, he performed in a recurring role on the first season of the ABC Television series, Defying Gravity.

Personal life

In the July 1989 issue of Ironman, Paris came out in the media as a gay man. He was the world’s first male professional athlete, in any sport, to come out in the media while still an active competitor in his sport.

The same year, Paris appeared on "The Oprah Winfrey Show" discussing marriage and being gay. Oprah asked Paris, "Bob, why not just stay in the closet?" Paris explained how "you fall in love" and that it doesn't feel right to hide it. Paris and his former boyfriend, Rod Jackson, became symbols for gay marriage and advocated gay rights. Paris's career ended up suffering because he came out as gay; he claims his life was even threatened through mail and by phone. Paris lost about 80% of his bookings and endorsements for bodybuilding.

After seven years of being together, Paris and Jackson split up. Paris admits that he kept trying to keep his relationship going even when he knew better; Paris felt that he would be giving gays a bad image if he and Jackson broke up.

In 2012, Bob Paris explained on his website that he never wanted to be a "lifestyle bodybuilder." Paris enjoyed the discipline and focus bodybuilding engendered; he also simply just excelled at the sport. To Paris, Bodybuilding allowed him to be artistic and a jock all at once, and also bodybuilding allowed him to exert his physical presence to the world in a way that demonstrated that he was a man. Today Paris is still active in fitness but not as serious as he once was. Paris believes exercise is part of having a more fulfilling life. Paris saw himself more as a writer over anything else. However, Paris believes bodybuilding saved his life and structured him to be the man he is today.

Today, Paris lives with his spouse, Brian LeFurgey, on an island near Vancouver, British Columbia. Together since 1996, Bob and Brian were legally married in British Columbia after the province equalized the marriage laws in 2003.

Books by Bob Paris

Photography books of Bob Paris

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NPC = National Physique Committee IFBB = International Federation of BodyBuilders