Benami was born in New York before moving to Tennessee at the age of 7. Her father is Israeli and her first name, Vered (ורד) means 'rose' in Hebrew. She spent most of her formative years in Knoxville, Tennessee. Benami was raised Jewish.
Benami is a 2005 graduate of West High School. She started singing in the fifth grade. In school, she performed the role of Marty in the musical "Grease" and frequently performed the national anthem in front of various crowds.
On American Idol, Benami said she was a cheerleader and mascot at Bearden Middle School.
Benami attended Nashville's Belmont University before moving to California. This move followed the death of her close friend and roommate, Rebecca Joy Lear, in an automobile accident driving from Nashville to her Kansas home during the Christmas holiday of her first year. They wrote songs together, mostly on Lear's album, but Benami recently said that she would pursue Lear's music first and would most likely upload Benami version of Lear's songs.
Benami auditioned for American Idol in Los Angeles, California, where she has lived for four years. She has credited her friend, Rebecca Joy Lear, as one of the reasons she auditioned for American Idol.
At Benami's audition she sang The Beatles' song "Hey Jude." The judges all loved her performance, including guest judge Avril Lavigne. She became a front-runner in the competition following her well-praised performance of Katharine McPhee's song "Terrified" (co-written by Idol judge Kara DioGuardi) on the first solo of Hollywood Week, where Simon Cowell said "she was good." During the group week of Hollywood week Benami's group sang Alicia Keys' "No One." On the second solo performance of Hollywood week, she sang Sarah McLachlan's "Angel."
In the top 24 performances, Benami sang Ingrid Michaelson's "The Way I Am" where the judges did not love her rendition of it, saying she has a good voice but it was rather "sound-alike." In the top 20 performance, she sang Bill Withers's "Lean on Me," where once again the judges did not love her performance with Randy Jackson saying it was pitchy and Simon Cowell said it was like a screaching cat. During the top 16 performances however, she made a come back with the song Fleetwood Mac's "Rhiannon" with Kara DioGuardi adding that that performance has the "singer/songwriter" vibe that she loves on Benami's performance of "Terrified."
On March 31, 2010, Benami was eliminated from the competition and finished in 10th place. Despite an encore of "Rhiannon" for the judges' save, the judges chose not to save her, though, Simon Cowell stated it was "a million times better" than her performance the night before.
On the American Idols LIVE! Tour 2010, Benami sang two songs, Katharine McPhee's "Terrified" and Kyler England's "Lay It on Me." She also sang in the group performance of Miley Cyrus's "The Climb" with Aaron Kelly, Katie Stevens, Andrew Garcia, Tim Urban, and Siobhan Magnus.
Benami also appeared with Jason Reeves on Jason's Official Twitter page where he thanked her for giving life to the song. They later sang "Terrified" with Jason on the guitar.
Promising to fulfill Rebecca's musical dream, Benami released and sang her version of Rebecca's songs "Lullaby" and "No Destination" on her official Myspace page.
Benami attended interviews such as The Ellen DeGeneres Show after her elimination. She also appeared on various other shows during her post-Idol tour including the Late Show with David Letterman, The Today Show, and Access Hollywood. On The Ellen DeGeneres Show, The Late Show, and Access Hollywood, Benami performed the Kara DioGuardi-penned "Terrified", her song made famous from American Idol's Hollywood Week.
Also, a track Benami recorded prior to participating on American Idol, "Sweet Rain," was uploaded onto YouTube after she was voted off the show. The track was co-written and produced by Rocco Guarino, who also produced American Idol alumna Amanda Overmyer's debut album. Benami stated via her Twitter page that she will be collaborating with producer Kyler England in the studio on April 6, 2010. On April 7, Benami had an interview with OK! Magazine. She stated, "I want to have a record out by this time next year. By the end of the year is my goal, but I don't know how logistics will work out after the tour. I already started writing some songs, so I don't know if I could get an EP out by the end of the year and then do a record the following year. I definitely want to do a compilation of Rebecca's music. I would eventually like to act, that would be fun. I would love to do sitcoms, like Friends. I love Jennifer Aniston, I think she's amazing. I would eventually like to write a book about all my experiences since I moved to L.A. About losing a friend, being an inspiration and turning something bad into something good."
In mid-April, Benami volunteered with "Idol Gives Back" along with various past Idol contestants including Elliott Yamin. They packed food for local underprivileged families. She stated via Twitter that she is currently practicing for the upcoming American Idol summer tour for which she will be performing along with the remainder of the top ten finalists.
Benami appeared as a guest in the If I Can Dream house. She sang Alicia Keys's "No One" with Katie Stevens, Andrew Garcia and Siobhan Magnus and Radiohead's "Creep" with Stevens and Magnus. She also sang "Terrified" inside the house, teaching it to former American Idol contestant and If I Can Dream castmate Alex Lambert.
Benami sang the "National Anthem" at the 2011 NBA Playoffs in Orlando, Florida on April 19, 2011 during the first-round game between the Orlando Magic and the Atlanta Hawks.
Benami sang the "National Anthem" and "God Bless America" during the 7th inning stretch for the Los Angeles Dodgers on May 30, 2012.
Benami released a single called "Gasoline" In May 2012 available digitally through iTunes and Amazon as well as a song called "If I Hadn't Forgotten" a duet she recorded at Revolver Studios with Keaton Simons in fall of 2011.
Benami portrays the titular character in the music video for "Hurricane" by Theory of a Deadman.
Benami is just about finished producing her debut album, titled Reverie. Her new single, "Watching and Waiting" was featured during the American Idol thirteenth season Detroit audition episode. Lyrically, the song evokes the journey of an Idol hopeful, waiting too learn their fate. The song features strong production and melody, and Didi's evocative vocals. "Reverie came to be through years and years of writing, living in Los Angeles, going through crazy things and writing about them," explains Didi in a video posted on the album's pledge page. "It's like pages from my diary."
Producer, Billy Mohler found "a culmination of Didi's favorite, sounds, favorite artists" in order to create a unique sound for the singer. "I think this album is special, because it really highlights Didi as an artist."
Reverie is a collection of tunes that were written during her time living in Hollywood, based on both real life and imaginary circumstances and her experience on American Idol. "It's about fears and fearlessness, hardships, hopes and dreams, all strung together to form a one of a kind musical journey," Didi confesses. "My dream for this album is to somehow communicate the battle of both the darkness and the light that exists inside as well as outside of ourselves. Every human faces moments of self discovery and the fight to make their dreams a reality. Reverie is a description of all sides of the spectrum from my perspective."
In her pledge music campaign her album "Reverie" was successfully financed and is currently available for sale.