A childhood phobia is an exaggerated, intense fear “that is out of proportion to any real fear” found in children. It is often characterized by a preoccupation with a particular object, class of objects, or situation that one fears. A phobic reaction is twofold—the first part being the “intense irrational fear’ and the second part being “avoidance.”
Contents
- Fear or Phobia
- Cause
- Epidemiology
- Treatment
- Fear of Abandonment
- Fear of Animals
- Fear of Darkness
- Fear of Strangers
- Nightmares
- References
Children during their developmental stages experience fears. Fear is a natural part of self-preservation. Fears allow children to act with the necessary cautions to stay safe. According to Child and Adolescent Mental Health, “such fears vary in frequency, intensity, and duration; they tend to be mild, age-specific, and transitory.” Fears can be a result of misperceptions. When a child perceives a threatening situation, his or her body experiences a fight or flight reaction. Children placed in new situations with unfamiliar objects are more likely to experience such reactions. These fears should be passing, a result of childhood development.
A childhood fear develops into a childhood phobia when it begins to interfere with daily living. “Acute states of fear can elicit counterproductive physiological reactions such as trembling, profuse perspiration, faint feelings, weakness in joints and muscles, nausea, diarrhea, and disturbances in motor coordination” It is not uncommon for frightened or anxious children to regress in a phase of development. For example, a kindergartener might begin to baby talk or wet the bed when faced with a threatening or particularly frightening situation. Childhood phobias exist in many different varieties and intensities and have a wide range from tolerable to incapacitating.
Fear or Phobia
The distinction between “normal” fears and phobias, a phobia (as defined by the fourth edition of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-IV)):
Cause
Though some fears are inborn, the majority are learned. Phobias develop through negative experiences and through observation. One way children begin to develop fears is by witnessing or hearing about dangers. Ollendick proposes while some phobias may originate from a single traumatizing experience, others may be caused by simpler, or less dramatic, origins such as observing another child’s phobic reaction or through the exposure to media that introduces phobias. In a study reported by Child and Adolescent Mental Health, parents filled out a questionnaire regarding common origins of phobias. In this study of 50 hydrophobic children around the mean age of 5 ½ the results were as follows:
In addition to asking about the origins of a child’s fear, the questionnaire asked if parents believed that “information associated with adverse consequences was the most influential factor in the development of their child’s phobia.” The results were as followed:
Epidemiology
According to Child and Adolescent Mental Health, approximately 5 percent of children suffer from specific phobias and 15 percent seek treatment for anxiety-related problems. In recent years the number of children with clinically diagnosed phobias has gradually increased. Researchers are finding that the majority of these diagnoses come anxiety related phobias or society phobias. Specific phobias are more prevalent in girls than in boys. Likewise, specific phobias are also more prevalent in older children than younger.
Treatment
Phobias are irrational; they cannot be reasoned away. In the case of most phobias, a qualified councilor or trained psychologist is needed to help a child overcome his or her phobia. There are, however, a few things that may help a child overcome his or her fears. Parents or guardians should be supportive and encouraging to help their children overcome fears. Children should not be pushed to face their fears prematurely.
Fear of Abandonment
From infancy a child can feel whether or not his mother cares for him. As a child grows and develops, he or she will need continued guidance until they reach adulthood. When a child’s discipline is directed at the child himself instead of his misbehavior, the child feels as if his relationship with his parents is at risk. Phrases like “Ugh, you’re killing me,” “I’ll give you up for adoption.” or “I could just kill myself,” are especially harmful. These phrases can make the child unstable and overly anxious when left alone. The child perceives that he is unloved and blames himself for the rejection.
Fear of Animals
The fear of animals most often occurs in the third year of life. In some cases, the fear has logical origins such as a traumatic experience with a large seemly furious dog. In others however, the fear is less rational. When a child fears small seemingly harmless animals like bunny rabbits and kittens, it is often due to the child relating the animal to something “scary” they have seen elsewhere.
Fear of Darkness
One of the first fears that a child can acquire is a fear of darkness. Because a child lacks the coordination and knowledge of an adult they often allow their themselves to imagine goblins and ghosts hidden in the depths of darkness surrounding him.
Fear of Strangers
The fear of strangers develops within the first six to ten months. It is characterized by crying or whimpering when introduced to unfamiliar people.
Nightmares
Nightmares “represent the fulfillment of forbidden, repressed, or rejected wishes.” Dreams may consist of aggressive monsters, sexual stirrings, or something unexpected.